A few more photos

Because they're kind of priceless. Thank you Edward and Heather for sending them. All the documentation of the documentation of the documentation is making my head spin!

Ah yes, drinking in the alley. Good times.

Rachel posts picture on blog that Heather took on cell
phone of Rachel taking picture of plaque while Rick films (off camera)

On the trolley, Rachel receives Godly visitation in the form of David Kodeski

Performance art? I'll tell you what I think of your stinkin'
performance art. Now pass me some more of that champagne.

By the way

Those of you who sent me stories that I didn't use, do not be cross! Once the dust settles on my dissertation, I will be creating plaques and doing more ceremonies -- as one-off performance gatherings (rather than grueling cross-Chicago treks like this first attempt).

If you didn't send me a plaque story and would like to, please do so here. Or you can have a plaque made yourself at The Engraving Connection and have your own ceremony! Huzzah! World domination!

Memorial Day II: Brian's ceremony

Somewhere between Richard's and Edward's ceremonies, spirits began to falter. Blisters blistered; children and adults alike approached meltdown. We needed a boost.

That boost came in the form of a free trolley ride! to the Lincoln Park Zoo, where we would be performing the final ceremony. Free! To the Zoo! Instead of having to wait for (and pay for) the Fullerton bus, we got to ride in open-air high style.

Free trolley ride with accidental product placement

Edward noted that there was a sign in our trolley advertising the fact that it could be rented. Which is true. En route to the zoo we wondered whether or not we could rent one and simply drive around picking up random tourists, offering them own particular and personalized take on Chicago's sights. (Watch this space, I suppose.)

The zoo was fifteen minutes away from closing when we arrived; we couldn't have timed it more perfectly. (Well, for the adults, anyway -- Lily wasn't altogether pleased by the drive-by zooing). After a quick scouting of locations, we decided on a slightly out-of-the-way electrical box mounted behind the benches at the sea lion exhibit.

Brian Lobel was also unable to attend, so I read his story (against a great backdrop):

2007. I had broken up with my best friend about eight months prior. I don't know what else to call it when your best friend's abusive lesbian partner forbids your best friend from talking to you. We were broken up, but I didn't fully get it, and had continued to call her for the last eight months without a phone call returned, an e-mail answered, a random party bump-into to be followed up on. I was sad.

I had welcomed my parents two days earlier to Chicago and for some reason, they were still only in the middle of their trip. They should have been gone after the honeymoon period (the approximately 48 hours in which my parents and I really get along), yet I still needed to fill two days of their trip with fun times. We had seen a play, seen a dance performance, eaten three good meals at great Chicago restaurants I'm too cheap for, and I was running low on ideas. The Lincoln Park Zoo…

I hadn't been since a drunken ZooLights in December 2005, but I knew it'd be perfect. We love animals. The Lobels love animals. Not in nature, but in controlled areas, where they can be appreciated. We begin to walk through the front gates, giddy with having found yet one more activity in Chicago, when my thigh buzzes with an unrecognized 734 number. I had erased my best friend from the phone, to stop me from calling, but I knew it was her. She was crying. One minute later I was crying, and five minutes later, I realized that my parents were waiting for me, impatiently, to go into the African Experience. Waiting. Waiting. So I shoo-ed them forth, physically walking 30 feet behind but always appearing to read plaques and scientific names. I thought it could look like I just needed more time to appreciate.

Puffy eyes and tearing and snotting--it was pathetic and gay and fantastic (only from a critical angle which I didn't have at the moment). But the conversation had to happen then and I'm glad we didn't wait. For 45 minutes I held up the charade until I saw my parents, arms folded, standing outside of the epileptic zebra area. The ignoring-of-the-cell-phone-in-public game had to come to an end, so I saved my friend's number, gave my face a minute to cool down, and then headed to the Sea Lions where the Lobels were waiting so that, as a family, we could appreciate the animals.

Installing Brian's plaque

"The conversation had to happen, c. 2007"

And with that, we were done. I took one final picture of the stalwart remaining participants and we dispersed. Fifteen minutes later, it began to rain. Hard.

Serendipity.

David, Edward, Noey, Lily, Diana, and Dina: Loyal to the end

Postscript: Due to weather and exhaustion, there is one remaining plaque, John's, which has yet to be installed. Check back to the site for a date and time!

Memorial Day II: Edward's ceremony

Edward Thomas-Herrera's ceremony was a bit of a wild card (wild plaque?), as he had determined a few days prior that the parking lot in which his story took place is now taken up by a massive athletic complex. Still, we were undeterred.

Edward told his story on the sidewalk where the parking lot entrance (roughly) used to be.


February 14, 1990. Valentine’s Day. Chicago is hit with 9 inches of snow. I'm stage managing a production of A Streetcar Named Desire at the DePaul Theater School. I get on a DePaul shuttle bus in Lincoln Park that transports me and about half the cast and crew to the Blackstone Theater downtown. It’s a 30-minute drive that takes over two hours. We do the show and get back on the bus. It’s stopped snowing, but it still takes us about two hours to get back to Lincoln Park. We arrive in the parking lot on Sheffield just north of Webster. I’m so happy to have survived my first big snowfall, I lie down in the snow and make a snow angel. I’m a 25-year-old from Texas and this is my very first. I think to myself, “I’ve successfully escaped Texas."

The universal gesture for "snow angel"

Installation (with a side of ham)

Just after Edward installed his plaque, a DePaul security guard came strolling out of the gym entrance. We all pretended to be deeply, deeply interested in the sidewalk. He paid us no mind.

Bye, Mr. Security Guard!

I like the notion that Edward's plaque is installed on a fancy new gym. Layers and layers of history, accumulating like the snow in a parking lot, seventeen years ago.

"Made a snow angel, c. 1990"

Memorial Day II: Richard's ceremony

Next we travelled to the corner of Paulina and Grace, to install Richard Fox's plaque (in absentia, I suppose I should say, as Richard was unable to join us).

We waited for the Damen bus.

And waited.

Sunblock was applied.

Waiting.

Lily climbed in and out of her stroller. The only one amongst us successfully self-amusing.

Finally: Bus!

I tried to get a picture of the scrolling LED sign at the fore of the bus that announces the cross-street stops, as our stop simply read "GRACE" in big red blazing letters. Would've been all symbolic and eloquent, no? But here's a tip: Digital pictures of stationary objects on very shaky buses? Usually blurry.

Anyway, here was Richard's story:

One weekday morning, in March of this year, I was out walking. At the corner of Paulina & Grace Streets, I was overwhelmed by a feeling of utter and complete happiness. Truly. I had not felt like that in years and years. I guess I am surprised when I feel content, but this was full-on happiness. The feeling lasted for hours. And I found myself saying, simply, “Thank you.”

I was surprised by the overlap between my story and Richard's; indeed, between mine, Richard's, and a few other stories that people sent me (but I was unable to use this time 'round due to money and time constraints). Indefinable moments of infinite calm. It's a little sad to think that so many of us think of (and recall) these moments as rarified. But I suppose identifying them for what they are makes us what we are: Artists. (And moody ones at that.)

I'd love to think that the installation of the plaques might inspire similar moments of unbridled joy in unsuspecting passersby. I can hope, can't I?

Caution: Moody artist at work

Installing Richard's plaque (after we figured out we could bend it into a curve!)

Photo not taken from shaky bus, but blurry nonetheless

It was decided that the Brown Line train would be the best route to take to Edward's ceremony. Public transport + formalwear = curious stares and smiles from passengers.


I sense an entirely different performance piece in the works...

Memorial Day II: Heather's ceremony

On our way to the next ceremony, three delightful events: First, we ran into Diana's friend Jason sitting on his front stoop. While he could not spontaneously attend the next ceremony, he did spontaneously supply us with a second bottle of champagne from his refrigerator. We love Jason.

Jason, Edward; Edward, Jason

Despite this photo's appearance, Diana is not plying young Lily with champagne

Second, the winded arrival of Dina, who joined us by bicycle. We also love Dina. Our swelling ranks made their way to Berwyn and Ravenswood.

Diana, en route, avec champagne

Heather Riordan has been a member of the Neo-Futurists since the Ice Age, I believe. She never told me the story behind her plaque; she simply sent me a single sentence. Luckily it was quite straightforward.

'Nuff said

The third delightful event occurred when Heather called her friend Rick, a professional filmmaker, who agreed to meet us on the ceremonial corner (as he lives two houses away) and shoot video of the installation. How's that for serendipity?


Free champagne and free video documentation. What else could I ask for? Oh! I know! Two more audience members: Kat and a friend, coerced from where they were idling on their front stoop. These are the moments I adore Chicago: it's the small-towniest of big cities. Walk half a mile on a sunny day and you're nearly guaranteed to run into someone you know.

The burgeoning crowd

I told Diana I was starting to feel like the Pied Piper of Performance Art.

The plaque was installed in similar fashion to mine -- on the window casing of an unsuspecting building.


Check back later for Rick's video!

Memorial Day II: Phase Two opening ceremony

On Sunday afternoon we gathered, a small but intrepid group: Diana, David, Edward, Debs, Heather (who later had to leave to go to work), Noelle, Lily (our youngest participant -- age two), and myself. Luckily, the forecasted rain had resolved itself to a tiny drizzle.


Not everyone could get gussied up, but Diana more than made up for it. Plus, she's an expert champagne pourer.


We kicked things off with the installation of my own plaque in the Winnemac Avenue alley, where it empties onto Carmen Avenue near Clark.


Here was the story I read:

Summer 2002. I was on my way to a 9:30pm rehearsal when I rounded this bend in the Winnemac alleyway. I looked up to see that the sky was this pure, deep, unbelievable blue, the kind that only happens on a late summer’s evening. And looking at that cool sliver of sky between buildings I had a moment of unadulterated angelic compassion for myself, one of those moments that is impossible to achieve willfully, where you treat yourself as you would want to be treated by others, with absolute and gentle kindness. I looked at that sky and thought everything’s going to be okay. It’s going to be fine. I didn’t attach the sentiment to anything in particular; it was just going to be fine in general. Whatever happened, I was going to be all right. For that moment, and only for a few blessed moments since that day, I truly believed it.

Reading my story to the group

A captive audience

After deliberation, we installed the plaque on the ground-floor window casing of a building on the south side of the alley (said window is behind me in the photo above). The criteria for installation, which became mandate over the course of the day, were 1) install the plaque somewhere it won't be immediately taken down by angry authority figures, particularly city officials; 2) install the plaque where it won't get too wet in the rain. (The adhesive on the back, while tenacious, is not 100% waterproof.)

Showin' off my plaque

My plaque, installed

After a pleasant swill of champagne, we moved on to Heather's ceremony.

A toast!